真友(美国) 发表于 2010-12-11 17:26:50

永远让忧郁,抑郁,焦虑,忧愁,忧心,永掉快乐的的方法

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<P style="MARGIN-LEFT: 35.05pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 21.6pt; mso-para-margin-left: 3.34gd"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: red">烦恼<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>苦恼<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>忧郁<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>痛苦从心来,从心灭!快乐从心起<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>人好好的生活<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>就没有过不去的坎<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>调好心情<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>过快乐人生<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="MARGIN-LEFT: 20.05pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 21.6pt; mso-para-margin-left: 1.91gd; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><SPAN style="COLOR: #339966"><FONT size=3>我乃头发光光欢喜自在人,号名<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>德信<SPAN lang=EN-US>’</SPAN>来<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>心理心情与精神与开导快乐人生幸福的念佛之光头人,愿人人幸福快乐开心自在的光头信任之师<SPAN lang=EN-US>!</SPAN>誓断烦恼,佛前求忏悔。印度总统 拉克斯坦说: 释迦牟尼佛是把智慧之光投射人类心灵的第一人。著名考古学家王国维说:佛教是科学的宗教!思想家谭嗣同研究各大宗教后说:<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>佛教乃解决人类精神问题之必由之路。<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>弘法为家务,利生为事业,人人都是佛法教育人心传播者</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt">。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>我出生在草根家庭来,父母从小教育我慈悲善良做人行,今日长大得遇佛法来,始觉佛陀慈悲爱护众生如父子来,感恩佛陀,感恩三宝救护我,让我醒悟人生真理智慧海,佛陀教育众生离苦海。人人需要佛法来浇灌,洗涤心灵烦恼除去入圣海,入得离苦般若佛法来,欢欢喜喜学佛自在来。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-INDENT: 31.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 21.6pt; mso-char-indent-count: 3.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #99cc00">克里斯特姆斯<SPAN lang=EN-US>•</SPAN>汉普里斯说;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt">‘</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt">佛教是一种精神科学。佛教是一种思想体系,一种宗教,一种精神科学,一种生活方式。它合理、现实、包容一切。<SPAN lang=EN-US>2500</SPAN>年来,它满足了世界上近三分之一人的精神需要。它深深地被西方世界所吸引。它在坚持<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>依靠自力<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>的同时,采取对其他观点的宽容态度。它包容了科学、宗教、哲学、心理学、伦理和艺术。它指出:人是他自己现实生活的创造者和他自己命运的唯一设计者。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN> <SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: red"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: red">诺贝尔物理学奖得者杨振宇说</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>;</SPAN>我本人是科学家诺贝尔物理学奖得者杨振宇诺贝尔物我是一个信奉佛教的科学家<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>佛教是世界上伟大的宗教之一,两千多年前传入中国之后,对中国文化产生了深远的影响。科学发展的终点是哲学,哲学发展的终点是宗教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”<BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="BACKGROUND: red; mso-highlight: red">美国纽约市佛教徒会会长乔治<SPAN lang=EN-US>•</SPAN>万雷说:现在世界急需拯救。我认为只有佛的光明和佛的圣洁,人们才能得到真正的拯救,才能得到真正的解放和自由。</SPAN> <SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>著名作家金庸<SPAN lang=EN-US>:</SPAN>相信佛陀<SPAN lang=EN-US>(</SPAN>印度语文中原文意义为<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>觉者<SPAN lang=EN-US>”)</SPAN>的的确确是觉悟了人生的真实道理,他将这道理<SPAN lang=EN-US>(</SPAN>也即是<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>佛法<SPAN lang=EN-US>”)</SPAN>传给世人。我经过长期的思索、查考、质疑、继续研学等等过程之后,终于诚心诚意、全心全意的接受。佛法解决了我心中的大疑问,我内心充满喜悦,欢喜不尽<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #3366ff">印度总统拉克斯坦 释迦牟尼佛是把智慧之光投射人类心灵的第一人。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="BACKGROUND: yellow; mso-highlight: yellow">我感恩社会,感恩善良的人们,在我人生道路上,我都以感恩心待人;所以人们都叫我<SPAN lang=EN-US>'</SPAN>木瓜<SPAN lang=EN-US>'<BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>我曾经在报纸上看到<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>死亡博客<SPAN lang=EN-US>’</SPAN>:<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>讲述一位可怜的女白领因为丈夫有外遇,而每日度日如年的痛苦的生活着,自己把自己的痛苦感受用博客来写出来,最后在痛苦的深渊里选择了跳楼,自杀而自己结束了自己的生命<SPAN lang=EN-US>’</SPAN>她的行为感到可怜而可悲。而引起的感悟思虑。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>第一<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>爱情<SPAN lang=EN-US>’</SPAN>真爱<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>首先是相互忠诚,忠心,相互信赖,相互依靠,尊重,真诚相待<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR>‘</SPAN>当一个人背叛了爱情的原则,就意味着这段爱情缘分已尽,就应该果断结束痛苦的婚姻而得自在<SPAN lang=EN-US>'</SPAN>为背叛爱情的人而折磨自己<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>是最不值得的行为。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR>'<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #339966">牵手既是情<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>分手即是爱<SPAN lang=EN-US>"<BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>爱情是两颗心的融合<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>当背叛了时<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>就如同一只美丽的花瓶<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>被打粹了<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>就不能够复原了<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>也就是说两人之间的这份爱情缘分已断<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>不是属于自己真正的永恒的天赐的幸福的缘分<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>应该果断的选择正确理智的行为<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>离婚或马上分手<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>分手后北加珍惜自己<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>等待自己幸福的天赐的真正缘分到来。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>每个人<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>无论任何人来到这个世界<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>天恩都会赐予每个人的幸福快乐的缘分<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>只是有的人天赐幸福快乐的缘分<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>很容易就来到<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>有的需要人生经历很多磨难<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>才能够得到自己真正幸福天恩的缘分之来到<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>需要人在生活中快乐的期待<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>只要相信自己<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>天恩会赐予人真正幸福的<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #ff6600"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #ff6600">第二真正永恒的爱情是快乐的,无论在人生的道路坎坷;磨难,波折,无论人生面对任何无常变化,爱情是两颗心的融合彼此的心是永远相互忠诚,忠心,相互信赖,相互依靠,体谅<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>共度人生,让人生充满价值,让人生活得更有意义<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: green">第三生命是宝贵的<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>抛掉痛苦的爱情和背叛的爱情<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>失去的是已断的不是属于真正天恩的真正属于自己的缘分<SPAN lang=EN-US>'</SPAN>而是得到幸福的归来<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>天恩赐的幸福到来<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>只要好好的快乐活着<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>就没有过不去的坎<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>只要果断抛掉<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>痛苦的<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>绝对会等到真正的幸福到来<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>生命是宝贵的,失恋不是失去一切,反而让人更加清醒人生,让自己从迷误中理智醒来,人无论面对任何的磨难,只要觉悟人生真正永久永恒的快乐幸福是什么<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>只要自己面对笑容,调理好身心,人生其实处处都是快乐幸福的,幸福是属于自己内心的心灵感受,与外在的物质是变化无常的,只有真正抛下自私,自我,认清一切缘起缘灭,从而若一方背叛了爱情原则,与其望而生叹,就应果断懂得这断缘已尽,就应该各自分手,永远断绝缘已尽的!而各自等待自己真正属于自己内心永恒的快乐幸福。追求心灵之真理,找到人生命之真正价值<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="BACKGROUND: teal; mso-highlight: teal">第四;当今社会道德败坏,普遍的人们在生活在物欲暴流,自私,贪寐,贪欲之痛苦中,很多的人为了满足自己的欲望而去伤害别人,之人是伦理的败坏,人们被欲望的自私而忘却了中国传统之伦理道德教育,这样的人也是生活在痛苦中的人,欲望无止境,人生根本无真正快乐可言,<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>人生空手来,空手去<SPAN lang=EN-US>’</SPAN>世间物欲追求当一个人离开这个世间时能带走什么呢?<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>减少贪欲,自私,追求心灵真正自在永恒的快乐,才是人生之永恒</SPAN>。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-INDENT: 31.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 21.6pt; mso-char-indent-count: 3.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt">道德是一个有信仰的人而拥有的与一个人的文凭,学位,学识无关!减少贪欲,自私,追求心灵真正自在永恒的快乐,才是人生之永恒<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: olive; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: olive; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">第五;爱情是祝福而不是伤害<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>真爱是祝福对方永远幸福快乐,而不是占有,私欲,满足自欲而伤害对方,很多人因为自私,贪欲,贪寐,而许多人丧失了理智,置法律及伦理道德于脑后,不择手段地谋取财富,满足自私的欲望错误的认为就是人生的幸福。为了满足一己的贪欲,而忘却了做人的基本道德伦理观。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: green">第六;爱情不是物质的奴隶<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>人们普偏把物质<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>金钱<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>爱情<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>婚姻<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>人生幸福观<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt">在当今拜金主义盛行的今天。西方物质文明以其巨大的冲击力,将中国从道德社会迅速推向了功利社会。人们普偏把物质<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>金钱<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>爱情<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>婚姻<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>人生幸福观,当今普遍的人们被沦为金钱物质的奴隶,人们在谈论爱情之前;首先就是说;对方外貌美或丑,对方有多少钱,是否有房子,车子,物质多少,而后谈论爱情。把人生作为物质的奴隶,这种人不是在与人谈爱情,谈交朋友,而是在与物质,贪欲谈爱情,交朋友,这样的人生是可悲的,这样的人是永远不能够体悟真正人生幸福观<SPAN lang=EN-US>!<BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>不知道物质,金钱,财富,人的外貌长相,等等这些都是无常变化的,不是永久的,这种人把爱情,婚姻<SPAN lang=EN-US>=</SPAN>物质,金钱,当一旦失去物质,金钱;就痛苦,苦恼,爱情,婚姻也就结束了,永远不懂真正永恒的幸福是什么?<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #339966"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #339966">第七<SPAN lang=EN-US>‘</SPAN>朋友之间没有共同的利益,永远只有相同的善意<SPAN lang=EN-US>’</SPAN>真心朋友之间心与心的交流,心与心的依靠,这样的朋友才是永久的朋友,真心才是人生永恒的快乐,人生永恒的幸福基础<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: green">第八.真爱是心与心的交流,愿人人都能够找到自己真正永恒之快乐幸福,愿人人都开心笑容面对人生。珍惜自己的生命。让自己的人生活得更有价值,找到人生觉悟快乐永恒之真理;处处与人为善,永远别伤害朋友<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 21.6pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; BACKGROUND: red; mso-highlight: red">当今社会很多家庭夫妻发生矛盾就打架<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>使各自都很痛苦<SPAN lang=EN-US>.</SPAN>遇事要冷静<SPAN lang=EN-US>:</SPAN>如果夫妻打架或者丈夫打妻子就是属于犯罪<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>就算丈夫打妻子一下也是犯罪<SPAN lang=EN-US> ;</SPAN>就报案,可以判刑施暴者坐牢!希望社会各家庭相互关心<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>爱护对方<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>体贴体谅对方<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>远离家庭之不辛的发生!希望社会家庭和睦<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>幸福美满<SPAN lang=EN-US> &shy;</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 3.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN style="BACKGROUND: navy; COLOR: green; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-highlight: navy">正确对待夫妻之间关系:</SPAN><B><SPAN style="BACKGROUND: navy; COLOR: green; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: simsun; mso-hansi-font-family: simsun; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-highlight: navy">夫</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="BACKGROUND: navy; COLOR: green; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: simsun; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-highlight: navy">&nbsp;</SPAN><B><SPAN style="BACKGROUND: navy; COLOR: green; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: simsun; mso-hansi-font-family: simsun; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-highlight: navy">夫妇相敬如宾,不敢当作彼此行乐之欲具</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: green; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: simsun; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"></SPAN></P>
<P style="MARGIN-LEFT: 9.95pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 21.6pt; mso-para-margin-left: .95gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #464646; mso-ascii-font-family: simsun; mso-hansi-font-family: simsun">色则纵对如花如玉之貌,常存若姊若妹之心。纵是娼妓,亦作是想,生怜悯心,生度脱心,则无见美色而动欲之烦恼。夫妇相敬如宾,视妻室为相济继祖之恩人,不敢当作彼此行乐之欲具,则无徇欲灭身,及妻不能育、子不成立之烦恼。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #464646; FONT-FAMILY: simsun"></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 3.75pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: simsun; mso-hansi-font-family: simsun; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">佛教指定不邪淫者:俗人男女居室。生男育女。上关风化。下关祭祀。夫妇行淫。非其所禁。但当相敬如宾。为承宗祀。不可以为快乐。徇欲忘身。虽是己妻。贪乐亦犯。但其罪轻微。若非己妻。苟合交通。即名邪淫。其罪极重。行邪淫者。是人以身行畜生事。报终命尽。先堕地狱饿鬼。后生畜生道中。千万亿劫。不能出离。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: simsun; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 15.75pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5" align=left><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">《惟日日杂难经》云:菩萨娶妇有四因缘:一者宿命同福,二者毕罪,三者应当共生男女,四者黠人娶妇疾得道。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">俗话言</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">∶</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">“</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">十年修得同船(</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">1</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">)为妻五道:</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">《玉耶女经》言</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">∶</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">“</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">佛告玉耶。作妇之法。当有五等。何谓为五。一如母妇。二如臣妇。三如妹妇。四者婢妇。五者夫妇。何谓母妇。爱夫如子故。名母妇。何谓臣妇。事夫如君故。名臣妇。何谓妹妇。事夫如兄故。名妹妇。何谓婢妇。事夫如妾故。名婢妇。何谓夫妇。背亲向疏永离所生。恩爱亲昵同心异形。尊奉敬慎无憍慢情。善事内外家殷丰盈。待接宾客称扬善名。最为夫妇之道。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">” <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">即做人妻室的女人,应要奉行五道:</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">第一、要作母妇:敬爱丈夫,要有如父母爱护子女之心;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">第二、要做臣妇:要把丈夫当做君王看待,自己犹如臣下;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">第三、要做妹妇:视丈夫如同胞的兄长,夫妇要相敬如宾;尊敬丈夫如敬哥,谦虚,以丈夫之喜好自住。此名妹妹般妻子。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">第四、要做婢妇:侍奉丈夫,有如婢女侍奉主人,常存恭敬尊重的心;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">第五、要做夫妇:和丈夫要永远孝养父母翁姑,和睦亲族。夫妇要有恩爱之情,要有亲爱之实。形体虽异、誓不二心,接待宾客,勤治家事,不谈他人是非,不道人之长短。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #33cccc; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: #fafafa; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 16.95pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5" align=left><SPAN style="COLOR: #33cccc; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">佛在《善生经》中云:善生。夫之敬妻亦有五事。云何为五。一者相待以礼。二者威严不媟。三者衣食随时。四者庄严以时。五者委付家内。善生。夫以此五事敬待于妻。妻复以五事恭敬于夫。云何为五。一者先起。二者后坐。三者和言。四者敬顺。五者先意承旨。善生。是为夫之于妻敬待。如是则彼方安隐。无有忧畏。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: #fafafa; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 15.75pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我曾经看到很多的</SPAN><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人因为失恋而痛苦的人,我希望能够用报恩之心帮助生活在精神痛苦中的人们能够真正觉悟什么是真正的属于人生之永久的快乐从此不在迷失人生快乐方向,正确调理好心情,让自己一个人的人生一样真正的充满阳光,充满幸福快乐从此开始,永远不在有往事之折磨身心,</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">‘</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一个人有一个的快乐,一个人的天空其实更轻松自在,永远不在痛苦</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">.</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">而自我伤害折磨自我身心</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">微笑面对人生,面对生活,面对人生。从此让自己的人生活着更精彩,更有价值,,找到人生活着的真实意义</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">感恩心,报恩的快乐心情开导佛教徒光光头,愿天下人人都永远快乐幸福,微笑面对每一天。愿交真诚真心的善男子善女人朋友!</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"></SPAN></P>
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